Two Things I Find Disturbing about Facebook

So I signed up for Facebook this afternoon and first of all, after more than 11 years of marriage, they want to notify Jamie that we're married and she has to "confirm" that we're married (whatever that means).









Then, this super powerful social networking tool gives me the option oto "Cancel Relationship". I've got a lot invested in our relationship (as she does to). How can they conscionably offer that? Are there no morals?